Mention My Child
(Grief Poems – Loss Of A Child)
Go ahead and mention my child,
the one who died, you know ..
Don’t worry about hurting me further
the depth of my pain doesn’t show.
Don’t worry about making me cry
I’m already crying inside ..
Help me to heal by releasing
the tears that I try to hide.
I’m hurt when you just keep silent
pretending he didn’t exist ..
I’d rather you mention my child
knowing that he has been missed.
You asked me how I was doing.
I say “pretty good” or “fine.” ..
But healing is something ongoing
I feel it will take a lifetime.
– Elizabeth Dent